Alpine First Step Pre School is a leading early childhood education provider that believes in making learning fun and engaging for young children. Our play-based learning approach is based on the belief that children learn best through play, interactive activities, and games.

We understand that early childhood education plays a crucial role in shaping a child’s future, which is why we provide a learning environment that is safe, nurturing, and stimulating. Our experienced teachers and caregivers use a variety of interactive activities and games to help children develop essential skills and knowledge.

Play-based learning is a hands-on approach to early childhood education that encourages children to explore, experiment, and create. Through play, children can develop problem-solving and critical thinking skills, promote socialisation and emotional development, and foster a love for learning.

At Alpine First Step Pre School, we incorporate various play-based learning activities into our curriculum to help children develop a range of skills. For example, arts and crafts activities encourage children to express themselves creatively, while pretend play with props and costumes helps develop their imagination and communication skills. Sensory play, such as exploring different textures and materials, helps develop children’s senses and cognitive skills. Finally, building and construction activities encourage children to think logically and creatively, improving their problem-solving skills.

Our experienced teachers and caregivers understand the importance of creating a nurturing and supportive learning environment. We believe in providing individualised attention and support to each child, taking into consideration their unique needs, interests, and learning styles.

We understand that each child is different, and therefore, we offer a curriculum that is flexible, inclusive, and developmentally appropriate. Our experienced teachers and caregivers observe and assess each child’s progress regularly, ensuring that they are reaching their full potential.

At Alpine First Step Pre School, we are committed to providing high-quality early childhood education that is fun, engaging, and prepares children for future academic success. Our play-based learning approach is designed to help children learn, grow, and develop in a safe and nurturing environment. We invite you to join us on this exciting journey of early childhood education and see the difference play-based learning can make in your child’s life.

If you’ve been asking yourself how to deal with a defiant child, that does the opposite of what you tell him, don’t despair! Here are 5 positive parenting strategies that you can start using immediately.

“Sweetie,” I say, “Don’t throw that toy.”
He takes one look at me and then chucks it across the room.
What do you do when your child does the opposite of what he’s told?
Do you yell?
Put him in time out?
Take away privileges?
And then what happens when he does the opposite of what you say again and again? When there is nothing left to take away…
If you’ve asked yourself, “How do I parent a defiant child?” you are not alone.
If you are looking for an article on new consequences or ideas to make your child comply, this isn’t it. However, if you want a more peaceful and positive home where both you and your child will be happy, read on.

1.Calm yourself when your child does the opposite of what you say

Your child’s defiance isn’t about you at all. It’s all her. She is feeling a lack of control in the current situation and is trying to regain it by being defiant.
That’s it.
Yes, it is frustrating and must drive you crazy. But know that she is not doing this to make you mad. She’s doing it because she wants to make more of her own decisions, and that’s a really wonderful thing!
Our best success indicator as parents is that our children become autonomous and can do things on their own. This defiance is a really good thing! Repeat this to yourself to regain your calm.
BUT… there is a time and a place. You usually have very good reasons for telling your child not to soak the dog with the hose or hit his baseball in the house. Now, to get her to see that.

2.Try to empathize with a defiant child

As a classroom teacher, I had quite a few students who acted outright defiant.
One in particular, whom we’ll call Nikhil Every adult command felt like a direct threat to him. He came into my classroom mid-year. When we did our first reading block, he talked to the other kids instead of reading. Chatting and laughing.
When the kids would try to correct him, he gave the “Ya, ya… I’m reading.”
However, I knew that if I asked him to start reading, he would give me the exact same answer.
This kid was used to adults telling him what to do without any regard for what his personal wishes were. So instead, I asked him to stay inside for recess so he could finish the reading assignment he didn’t do in class. He grunted. Said a few, “Whatever’s,” and stayed inside. Once the rest of the class left for recess, I sat down next to him. I told him he wasn’t in trouble, and I tried to gain some common ground. It must be really frustrating to come into a new school mid-year. Leave your friends at the other school and come here.”
“Ya,” he replied.
“I never had to do that, I imagine it must be hard.”
“Ya,” he repeated. But something inside him had changed. He softened. When he saw I wasn’t lecturing him, he dropped his defences.
It’s the same with our own kids. They put up a glass wall that protects them against our words, anger, anything… Usually, defiance at home is a matter of the kid feeling a lack of control.
At least they can control this one little action of throwing their LEGO across the room. The first step is to emphasize with them and tell them how you understand. Something simple like,
“I see that you really want to throw your sister’s cap across the room. It must be really fun to see it fly, right”
Or,“You don’t like your sister telling you what to do. It makes you mad
Don’t worry about being wrong in your guess. If you are wrong, your child will tell you, and it will get you closer to understanding exactly what’s going on in his head.

3. Look for alternatives

Since defiance is an act of control, your child wants something but is unsure how to get it.
Throwing LEGO’s might be a sign of boredom and that he needs alternate activities to explore when he’s bored.
Now, this doesn’t mean it’s your job to entertain your child.
Instead, talk to him about your own emotions. You can say things like, “When I’m bored, I….
Like to go outside, or Draw
Do something I’ve been putting off
Read a book
Play a game
Giving alternatives is a great way for your child to start self-regulating and making his own decisions.

4.   Hug Them

I know.. I know.. Sometimes when our kids make us mad, this is the last thing we want to do.
By hugging them when they make us mad, aren’t you rewarding them for their behaviour?
No, not exactly.
When we start looking at defiance as a loss of self-control instead of simply bad behaviour, re-establishing the relationship between you and your child makes a lot of sense.
“Come here and cuddle me for a second” or “Here, let’s sit down for a bit” can help you hit the reset button on any strong emotions building up.

5.Take Action

Sometimes, we get so busy that we yell across the room to our kids and expect our demands to be immediately complied with. If a defiant action keeps happening, we say,
“Don’t do that.”
“Put that down.”
“Stop hitting your sister.”
If we’ve already empathized with our kid, brainstormed choices and re-established our connection with them, it’s time to make it physically impossible for them to continue with the action.
This is not meant to be a WWE throwdown. Rather, if your child is throwing LEGO’s, walk over and take all the LEGO’s away. If she is spraying the dog with the hose, turn off the water and take away the hose.
We don’t need to say anything. The phrase “actions speak louder than words” is particularly meaningful in parenting.
Plus, it’s super satisfying walking over and taking something away in a calm manner while staying stone silent.
Your child will be caught off guard. They won’t know what you are going to do. It’s kind of exhilarating. Try it. You’ll see what I mean. The next time you ask yourself, “what can I do with a defiant child?”, first tell yourself that it’s not a statement against you… it’s all them exerting their independence.
After you try to empathize and brainstorm alternative ways they can use their emotions, don’t hesitate to take action and make it impossible for them to repeat the action again.

Know more about Alpine first step best play school in Greater Noida